QueerLove Podcast
The silly and serious shenanigans of two queer relationship coaches.
On this podcast we talk about how to live your best queer life with fulfilling, healthy relationships and anything else that makes your little queer heart happy. Because living your life outside of the heteronormative scripts is totally possible for you.
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Episodes
79 episodes
79. If You Don't Know What To Do In The World Right Now...
We know it for ourselves. We hear it from clients and our friends in the queer community. There is A LOT happening in America with the political system and it is, understandably, creating a lot of unrest and fear. To start, you are ...
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Episode 79
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78. Importance Of Queer Friends And Community
Y'all, we are in quite the challenging times. Something that we have been noticing more and more in sessions with our clients is the importance and growing desire for queer friends and community, which makes sense that we would be seeking that ...
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Episode 78
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77. An Episode Of Shenanigans
Well...this was unexpected. We did have an intention with this episode and then it turned into shenanigans. But, don't worry, we do a little bit of our intention at the end with some queer and poly sentence stems so come and play al...
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Episode 77
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76. Exploring Gender While Partnered
Exploring your gender is a tender and vulnerable experience, with an understandable amount of concern that is growing under the new administration in the US. All that said, this brings up a lot within the context of a romantic partnership for a...
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Episode 76
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75. Coming Out Of The Daze Of New Relationship Energy (NRE)
They say that love is a drug, right? Definitely can feel that way when you are in the throws of new relationship energy (NRE), which is also known as the honeymoon phase. The phase of a relationship where you feel intoxicated and w...
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Episode 75
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74. Backing Up Those "Good" Words With Action
Ever felt seduced by the personal growth related words and phrases that someone says to you? Maybe they say how they are emotionally intelligent or that they know how to "hold space" or that they are responsible for their own emotions.
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Episode 74
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73. Queer Joy - The Holiday Edition
Holidays bring up a lot so we thought we would offer a little bit of queer joy for you and encourage you to do the same for yourself!We have moved through the holiday season so what had you feel those glimmers of queer joy? What would b...
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Episode 73
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72. Navigating Family Dynamics At Holiday Gatherings
The end of the calendar year often brings more time with family, whether that is a positive or not in your experience. On top of whatever that brings up for you, after this year's election in the US, there is some additional spice being include...
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Episode 72
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71. A Quick Relationship Gratitude Practice
Everyone likes to feel appreciated, especially by those that hold so near and dear to our hearts. Gratitude is a value that can create profound connections with others, and it does not need to be complicated.This week we run through a D...
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Episode 71
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70. How Self-Healing Ripples Out To Your Relationships And Community
It all starts with you. This is something we tell our clients and ourselves all the time. It is easy to think that you do not have the power to create expansive change in the world, but we are going to debunk that in this episode. ...
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Episode 70
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69. What Does It Even Mean To Choose Your Relationships?
Choice. We want it in life. It is what allows us to feel free, yet in relationships, how often are we not actively choosing?And to answer that, what does it mean to choose your relationship? What does it mean to choose your relationship...
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Episode 69
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68. Our Takeaways And Reflections From Last Episode On Internal Family Systems (IFS)
Phew, if you listened to last week's episode with Chamonix Penelope about Internal Family Systems then you learned A LOT. We know we sure did!We wanted to take some time today to offer our reflections and takeaways from that juicy conve...
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Episode 68
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67. How Internal Family Systems (IFS) Can Help You In Your Relationship With Yourself And Others - With Chamonix Penelope
We have our first ever guest on the podcast and we are so excited for you to listen to this in-depth exploration on Internal Family Systems (IFS). Whether you are new to IFS or you have experiences working with a practitioner trained in IFS, th...
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Episode 67
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66. A Quickie...And It's Actually About Sex
Ready to talk about the awesomeness of queer sex? Great, we are too!We dive into some of our favorite things about queer sex that we also see as beneficial for any relational dynamic to deepen sexual intimacy - including an erotic intim...
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Episode 66
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65. Lesbians Just Want Soft Lives For Each Other
It's true, this all started from a video E saw on TikTok. What does it mean to have a "soft life"? And what connection does that have for lesbian relationships? This added layer of consideration that comes when you are born AFAB an...
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Episode 65
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64. What Is Challenging And Awesome About Being An AFAB Couple
Welcome back to another episode! Today is all about what we learned we need to be aware of in being an AFAB (assigned female at birth) couple in this world - whether it be a challenge or superpower of this particular dynamic. Shari...
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Episode 64
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63. Are You Weaponizing Boundaries In Your Relationships?
New name, who dis? But, truly, welcome to the first episode with our new name!We are starting off with a bang with this episode that we have some opinions about...weaponizing boundaries in relationships. Is it actually a boundary or are...
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Episode 63
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62. Doing What You Want In Relationships Vs. Taking Responsibility For Your Relationships
Ready to get a bit of a crash course into an exercise that we run coaching clients through when things are feeling "unfair" in relationships? What happens when you know what you want in your relationship, but for whatever reason, it jus...
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Episode 62
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61. What's The Point Of Having Difficult Conversations In Relationships?
Maybe the answer seems obvious, but then why do we still avoid difficult conversations like the plague? We break down the importance of difficult conversations when it comes to deepening connection and understanding with whoever you are...
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Episode 61
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60. Partnership and Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (C-PTSD)
To start, there are trigger warnings on this episode around self-harm, suicidal ideation, sexual abuse, and other forms of trauma. Please do take care of yourself and reach out to someone for support. Another personal episode this week ...
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Episode 60
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59. Partnership And ADHD
This is a personal episode all around being in relationship with someone who experiences ADHD. What are the challenges? What are the perks? What are the areas of learning available? And what happens when someone's experience of ADH...
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Episode 59
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58. Don't Talk About It, Be About It: Aligning Your Actions With Your Desires
We jokingly say this phrase often in our household, "don't talk about it, be about it". And it is our loving and fun way to express when there is a disconnect between what we say we want to do or see happen with the actual actions that are goin...
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Episode 58
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57. When Your Ex Wants To Get Back Together
How quickly did you click on this episode because of this enticing topic? We have all had some experience around this - maybe it was your ex reaching out, maybe you were the ex, or maybe it was the ex of your best friend who continues to reach ...
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Episode 57
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56. Being Queer And/Or Poly Is Not Enough To Make A Relationship Work
We're talking about those dating "check boxes" when it comes to finding partners in queer and/or poly spaces!This is something we know from our own experience and something we see A LOT with clients. You meet someone who seems cool and ...
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Episode 56
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55. Using The Conflict Resolution Triangle In Our Own Relationship (Part 2)
Here we are at part 2 of last week's episode all on E's creation - the Conflict Resolution Triangle! If you have not yet checked it out, give it a listen (it's a quickie!) so that you have an extra tool for your own relationships!Today ...
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Episode 55
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