QueerLove Podcast
The silly and serious shenanigans of two queer relationship coaches.
On this podcast we talk about how to live your best queer life with fulfilling, healthy relationships and anything else that makes your little queer heart happy. Because living your life outside of the heteronormative scripts is totally possible for you.
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Episodes
90 episodes
90. Lettings Things Be Good
Waiting for the other shoe to drop? Feeling on edge around there only be challenges in your relationship and nothing good to focus on? Let's talk all about it. What can you do to start training your brain to find the wins, even when...
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Episode 90
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89. "It's Not Fair!" - Navigating Unfair Situations In Relationships
You know that feeling when you are ABSOLUTELY certain that what is happening in your relationship is unfair and you are determined to make it fair and ensure that justice is reached and you are willing to defend yourself to the ends of the Eart...
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Episode 89
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88. Secure Attachments
"I want to feel secure in my relationship." A goal that we hear all the time from clients so let's break it down - what are the components of a truly secure attachment in relationships? If you are interested in learning more around ...
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Episode 88
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87. What Even Is A Healthy Relationship?
This is something we speak to from different angles across all the topics we go over on the podcast, so why not just be super direct and talk about what exactly is a healthy relationship? We are going to the basics with this one!
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Episode 87
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86. Completing The Past In Relationships
Whether this is completing the past with a relationship long gone, or completing the past in a current relationship around an ongoing issue, your ability to liberate yourself from the charge of those experiences will make a huge difference for ...
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Episode 86
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85. Staying Connected With Humans And Your Humanity In A Technological World
Look, there are plenty of pros to the advancements in technology, especially when it comes to communication. AND it is also important to recognize where these advancements are actually making it difficult for us to connect with others and with ...
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Episode 85
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84. Playing The Long Game In Relationships
What is the long game? How does discernment come into play? And exactly how much patience do you actually need to say that you successfully attempted to play the long game?We go over the ins and the outs with these questions and more fro...
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Episode 84
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83. Using Boundaries To Support Your Personal Growth
Boundaries will inevitably come up in your self-development/personal growth work. It is a buzz word that often draws people into this realm of exploration, but how do we use boundaries for the purpose of expanding our personal growth?A f...
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Episode 83
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82. Listening To Your Intuition In A Noisy World
Intuition. A gut feeling. Inner knowing. Whatever the word, whatever the phrase, let's talk about getting connected to that (often) soft voice within yourself and how that relates to any and all relationships.There is a lot of noise in t...
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Episode 82
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81. Navigating Change, Shadow Work And Transformative Conversations
Okay, first off, what the heck is shadow work? We go over it in the episode, but overall, this is the work that involves diving deeper into what is beneath the surface for us in the land of the subconscious. Assumptions, preconceived notions, b...
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Episode 81
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80. Staying Connected Through Relational Repair
Conflict is something most people run away from in relationships, but we know it is inevitable because well, we are humans. The aftermath of conflict leads us into that season of repair, which could be one afternoon or perhaps could be a couple...
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Episode 80
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79. If You Don't Know What To Do In The World Right Now...
We know it for ourselves. We hear it from clients and our friends in the queer community. There is A LOT happening in America with the political system and it is, understandably, creating a lot of unrest and fear. To start, you are ...
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Episode 79
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78. Importance Of Queer Friends And Community
Y'all, we are in quite the challenging times. Something that we have been noticing more and more in sessions with our clients is the importance and growing desire for queer friends and community, which makes sense that we would be seeking that ...
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Episode 78
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77. An Episode Of Shenanigans
Well...this was unexpected. We did have an intention with this episode and then it turned into shenanigans. But, don't worry, we do a little bit of our intention at the end with some queer and poly sentence stems so come and play al...
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Episode 77
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76. Exploring Gender While Partnered
Exploring your gender is a tender and vulnerable experience, with an understandable amount of concern that is growing under the new administration in the US. All that said, this brings up a lot within the context of a romantic partnership for a...
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Episode 76
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75. Coming Out Of The Daze Of New Relationship Energy (NRE)
They say that love is a drug, right? Definitely can feel that way when you are in the throws of new relationship energy (NRE), which is also known as the honeymoon phase. The phase of a relationship where you feel intoxicated and w...
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Episode 75
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74. Backing Up Those "Good" Words With Action
Ever felt seduced by the personal growth related words and phrases that someone says to you? Maybe they say how they are emotionally intelligent or that they know how to "hold space" or that they are responsible for their own emotions.
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Episode 74
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73. Queer Joy - The Holiday Edition
Holidays bring up a lot so we thought we would offer a little bit of queer joy for you and encourage you to do the same for yourself!We have moved through the holiday season so what had you feel those glimmers of queer joy? What would b...
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Episode 73
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72. Navigating Family Dynamics At Holiday Gatherings
The end of the calendar year often brings more time with family, whether that is a positive or not in your experience. On top of whatever that brings up for you, after this year's election in the US, there is some additional spice being include...
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Episode 72
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71. A Quick Relationship Gratitude Practice
Everyone likes to feel appreciated, especially by those that hold so near and dear to our hearts. Gratitude is a value that can create profound connections with others, and it does not need to be complicated.This week we run through a D...
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Episode 71
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70. How Self-Healing Ripples Out To Your Relationships And Community
It all starts with you. This is something we tell our clients and ourselves all the time. It is easy to think that you do not have the power to create expansive change in the world, but we are going to debunk that in this episode. ...
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Episode 70
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69. What Does It Even Mean To Choose Your Relationships?
Choice. We want it in life. It is what allows us to feel free, yet in relationships, how often are we not actively choosing?And to answer that, what does it mean to choose your relationship? What does it mean to choose your relationship...
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Episode 69
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68. Our Takeaways And Reflections From Last Episode On Internal Family Systems (IFS)
Phew, if you listened to last week's episode with Chamonix Penelope about Internal Family Systems then you learned A LOT. We know we sure did!We wanted to take some time today to offer our reflections and takeaways from that juicy conve...
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Episode 68
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67. How Internal Family Systems (IFS) Can Help You In Your Relationship With Yourself And Others - With Chamonix Penelope
We have our first ever guest on the podcast and we are so excited for you to listen to this in-depth exploration on Internal Family Systems (IFS). Whether you are new to IFS or you have experiences working with a practitioner trained in IFS, th...
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Episode 67
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66. A Quickie...And It's Actually About Sex
Ready to talk about the awesomeness of queer sex? Great, we are too!We dive into some of our favorite things about queer sex that we also see as beneficial for any relational dynamic to deepen sexual intimacy - including an erotic intim...
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Episode 66
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